The world has gone nuts and it seems they like it?

Sitting on 9/11 reading tweets and FB, seeing all the marches, letters, opinions? I started wondering again? How after 9/11 does a nation elect a dude by the name of Hussein, twice? Plus this guy wasn't really born or something to that effect? He has very little "record" and looks like not even American, or Black or White for that matter?

They are even funding the same dudes that flew into the towers? They seem to have forgotten any of the lessons of the past? If someone chants they want to kill you, It's not culture but threatening your life Einstein!

Blacks all over the world are claiming that whites owe them something? Been trying to find out exactly what, and what it would take to repay this debt? Nobody is sure it seems, but nonetheless we are paying? If anybody claimed I owe something, I normally check whether I in fact received this benefit,product or service before acknowledging debt! It seems where it concerns black people this is not needed? You just pay no matter the price!

To this day I'm struggling to find anything built by Blacks? Yet we seem to have built everything and now we must give them even more. To this day if left to their own devices, they seem to destroy more than build. Africa has many examples, but Detroit is possibly the best example of what happens when Blacks dominate a society? Europe is heading down that road quite happily and I'm gobsmacked to say the least. You invite trouble and then try and manage it? Nuts I tell you!

Slavery , yes that thing where Blacks sold other Blacks to work in white countries are one of the reasons. Also that we developed areas where they where roaming like lost children, carrying everything. Nope never used anything remotely resembling the wheel, even when it was in use for 100's of years elsewhere. They died of hunger during droughts, never planned for the future. A habit they happily live to this day. No like when they used to raid other tribes to increase their cattle wealth, they are now legally raiding whites jobs, property, opportunities, thanks to Liberal morons with massive guilt complexes!

Fact is we did take from where they live but the trade off is that education, healthcare, development came without any real contribution from them! That not all of it went smoothly is true. That some places people were mistreated even died is also true. But how do I now make amends for that? I have never done any of that, why must I pay. Plus not only Blacks have suffered because of colonization, occupation. Whites through history as well? Think we must nail the descendants of Genghis for that little move he pulled over a thousand years ago!

Why this guilt. History teaches us that there were bad things from the beginning and there will be some more, I assure you. But when we OK acts of racism and violence against any group we are surely not improving anything? In SA Blacks that break in, Steal, and while they are there, Rape and murder are defended because they are hungry? Also something that they didn't even live through is to blame? Nuts absolutely Nuts.

I just find it amazing that fixing "injustice" with injustice is an acceptable practice. Worst is that the supposed injustice is not checked and verified, but taken at face value. Even when gross distortions are exposed we turn a blind eye? Are people that lazy and happy to suffer at the hands of people that clearly are out to get us?

I know I'm racist. Was not 20 years ago I might add!Yes one may not say anything about Blacks, especially the truth! I don't actually care if you think that. I never made this a Black white thing! But tell you what, the threats, abuse whites are starting to suffer will not go unnoticed or ignored for ever. Blacks are general less educated, more violent and loves this new entitlement they seem to nurture. It will cost them again just like it did before, and is doing now. Their own people are starving robbing them now, and good on them. If you're too stupid to realize, then you must suffer. Called choice!

Still the world has gone absolutely mad?

I am so tired of listening to the rambling of morons! Liberals in general and Black people specifically.

During this week I read a whole piece on how just 16% of SA is on private medical aid! What gave me the biggest pain in my ass was that the writer felt this terribly unfair? Free medical care is just not good enough, got be of a certain standard now too? The writer is under the impression somebody, life and in this country whites owe Blacks something. Try as I may I cannot determine what is owed, nor what it will take to pay this debt ? But I digress.

I would just make the following observations. White people in SA carry way more than half of the tax burden. White capital also built everything that we have, and you Blacks now control. What the hell do you want?You are already bleeding us dry while we are fighting for our existence with the racist laws you love so much! BEE is racist. I care nothing for your view that It's to uplift. You are lying. It is to punish us but more on that later. Still we manage to earn more than you do? It will also remain so, because your entitlement attitude is whats crippling you! That and the fact that the average Black person is barely literate. 

You could have so much more if you stop plundering and destroying stuff every time you make a statement! Looting and destruction seems to be the main entertainment when marching for your rights? Replacing and rebuilding is Money wasted that could improve your free medical care, for one? But you cannot see that? Your propensity for violence and destruction is just not acceptable. The way you resort to acts of barbarism is a little disturbing. The fact that you find no problem with it, truly amazing! 

Speaking of rights? Where did you get the idea you have rights? Life is not fair, never was, never will be.OH the liberals told you well they are even more clueless than you, if at all possible? Consider who we are dealing with here: 

Liberals believe that wealth is created by destroying the wealthy.

Unfortunately so do you Blacks. We hear also from liberals that everybody is the same, equal you know? Blacks just love hearing that. But sorry, It's just another lie! People are all different, if you didn't notice, you're dumber than I thought. Rightly or wrongly black people largely lack education, and most are incapable of reason. If you find this statement offensive, deal with it. It's true and we are failing as a country because of your incompetence and lack of logical thought.

You need to get to grips with the fact that dividing wealth makes everybody poor. If you want to be wealthy, you need to work for it. As with private medical aid. You''re like petulant children and the con artist liberals feed this childlike affliction. Liberalism/socialism/communism and multiculturalism has failed. Stop beating your head against the wall.

You cannot right the wrongs of the past without creating some new ones. Move on and build something. Whites gave you a fully functional country that 20 yrs later is imploding. It's not anybodies fault but the drivers of the bus. YOU. It will never change lest you realize it. 

Inanimate things cannot be evil only people. Bane of my life hearing the shit you spew. Get the facts about our past and the effects, and stop lying. It's holding you captive and preventing you from addressing the future. Cry me a river. There were wrongs done to people all through history. And some rose above it and some never did. It's life ,things happen. Not even a color thing. You're so busy feeling aggrieved that you fail to rise above the problems we face. Lying wont help sorting out the problems, even if it gets you elected. Means nothing, because at some point you will be found out and it won't be pretty! 

There is nothing wrong with wanting to live with your own people and protect your community physically and culturally. That BTW is why there are so many countries and languages. People live with their own. I know It's rough in the townships, but if you don't like it change it. We don't like how you live, so we don't want to live with you, in those conditions. It a choice. Many Black people have now escaped it and every body may do that. Stop telling us we have to accept everybody and everything. We oppose abortions and homosexuality, because it offend our culture. Your insistence that we share your perversions will not change that. Anything goes is not human rights it's chaos, replacing good order. I don't want my daughter sold as a slave, or for cows. Neither do I want her marrying into a culture that enslaves her, and promotes violence to women, neither do I want grandchildren that belong nowhere? We're back at the tower of Babel?

We are way past judging the past. Everybody is sorry and we need to move along now. Whites will always have more because It's their culture to do so. The spectacular BEE failure should remind you of this. We now have more. And when you change the rules we will change our strategy. All the while watching you ruin a really wealthy country. It's all good. Waiting for you to truly fuck it up good. We will then rebuild and again make ourselves ridiculously wealthy. I wait in anxious anticipation. 

If you think me racist, great. I think you're stupid so we are even there. Only difference is you feel offended by my statement, and I'm not by yours. Liberals, we know you suffer from guilt why I wonder? I never personally hurt anyone, so I do not have guilt. Your intolerance of people that differ from you in their views sort of exposes the flaw of your beliefs. You lack all humanity and understanding of differences, to actually be humanitarians. Everything about you is  a contradiction. 

Are women over 30 sexier? Responding to a tweet that got me thinking!

In their twenties women have the body.At this age is tehy're certainly sexy so no argument from me here. Men also rarely need more than that so at this stage the guys are cocky and the girls all starry eyed. Everybody is happy.The question though is that after the 2.5 children, 10 years later what is the position?

Well personally I have found that they can be even sexier than in their 20's. You see they have a different sexy after the 20's. It's a bit more danger, knowledge and I know what I want now, that comes into play. When trying to bed a girl in her 30's you need to have so much more than just a pick up line. Shes been there done that and probably know more lines than you do? She will also require you to pay more attention to what she wants and would gladly not, rather than be left disappointed! They are more of a challenge and way more mysterious. She has become a real woman. You're not dealing with Girls anymore at this age. Gone with the cocky and in with "Oh, Shit".

I believe the chemistry that one senses with women over 30, is that the real sexual awakening of women happens from about 28. One only has too look around and see how they are more bold, even brash in their 30's. Make no mistake they by now know want they want and will keep you on top of your game. They are way more dangerous too. Most women that stray, will do it at this age? Not necessarily leave you just go do a little comparison maybe? They instead of being offended by attention , like in their 20's, they will in their 30's not just reject it outright . In fact they will love the attention and will even entertain the idea , but luckily not lightly act upon it. They know how to handle themselves better and men don't intimidate them anymore. This is now a sexually confident, experienced woman that has no illusions holding her back . She knows what she wants, how she wants it, and has the confidence to decide for herself.

Where that leaves you my friend ,is that we as men have difficulty dealing with them at this age. They're even harder to understand and we now relinquish the little influence we had before . They demand and expect way more from their partners now,but thankfully they also understand much better the things what will make you happy too. The new found confidence and boldness, makes them sexier than ever before, and trust me the men will notice. As of course we do without admitting it. They exude a sexiness, that is intoxicating rather than just having an aesthetically pleasing body.Plus some of them still have bodies that stupefies and the combination has us at their mercy! And most men love it ladies!

You know that conversation where they laugh and carry on, that stops when you walk in. Well you've got it , they are laughing at you! That little brewers droop accident two weeks ago, well It's no secret any more. Better pay more attention in future. You will now be the focus of discussions, if you fail to please this sexy, free, bold and liberated woman. Do so at your own risk.

Are they sexier in their 30's? You bet they are! Should you be afraid? Nah, not really about you, but her, so hang on tight for the ride of your life. If you are lucky you get to stay for a long time. The benefits of this change outweighs the challenges that it sometimes brings. I suggest you buckle up! The dirty 30's are one of those jokes that I refer to when saying "many a true word said in jest"! If you think it's a joke then old pall this joke may just be on you? You will have to bring your A game, because these ladies are at the peak of their sexy, and they will not miss out! Will you?

It's quite a bind not being a "real" writer! Still finding my feet to get a point across at one go. But maybe in time? Luckily I am a patient person! Or maybe the subject is just too big for one article? Anyhow!

“Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.” 
― Søren Kierkegaard 

Back to Unconditional living! I have over the last few days been the benefactor of quite a bit of pity. Now I do appreciate the sentiment, but alas it is really wasted on me! It also shows I am not getting my point across yet? Just to clear something up! You can only do this if you are really strong, confident, emotionally mature and truly secure in yourself! Egotism, insecurity and selfishness makes living this way truly impossible. I will venture to say egotistical, selfish people cannot even comprehend it, let alone live it? Pity is not the right emotion for this matter! But I appreciate the "love"shown! It is a selfless act and selfless acts are truly liberating!Remember too that I learned this from receiving unconditional love. I do know both sided of this coin? Really wanted to leave you with the romanticized version, but I'll have to explain further.

“If you can't change your fate, change your attitude.” 
― Amy Tan 

If you love unconditionally, it is a beautiful thing. However it also removes a whole lot of potential hurt and disappointment, from the start. It is wonderful protection against the fallibility of our human nature. You see, I know how I am going to re-act and act, in any situation that comes up. I am going to love and forgive with no condition! There is no insecurity, no surprise! I will focus on the problem and help the person. Now helping people have a wonderful therapeutic effect on me! Plus I do not focus on me but away from me and thus it will have no major effect on me. Lets say a "wrong" is done that should affect me, It is not my "wrong", thus not my problem. I do not control the "wrong", but I control how it will affect me! If it causes failure, it's also not my failure? I am programming for success not failure! Even the most shallow of people, will eventually be so guilt ridden, that they will leave on their own? So abusing this wonderful philosophy is not all that easy. Plus remember if you are living it, you have none of the guilt but all of the forgiveness.

“It's the heart afraid of breaking that never learns to dance.” 
― Xiaolu Gu

Please, I am not saying that, that should be your reason. It's just some of the perks. But being able to love that way is unbelievably rewarding and fulfilling. It's peaceful strength that is hard to describe? It's a Love thing first and foremost. If it's not, it will fail. And it's a fantastic feeling to live a life like this!

“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”
― Lao Tzu

There are many quotes that confirm the viability of such a life. Imagine if we reciprocate this to each other? For one we would not intentionally want to hurt each other! So any hurt would be justified in a strange sort of way. Personally, infidelity would hurt much less, than say someone backstabbing me. Infidelity is not as personal as someone embarrassing you! Many times infidelity is about insecurity and other factors,not necessarily affecting you or what you've done or not done? Possibly it has to do with things you can maybe not control?Where deliberately hurting someone is far more an act of betrayal to me personally. I repeat! I do not condone destructive behavior but understand that life is not as simple as we try make it? This is why I believe Love is there? To protect and manage our fallibility.

“To be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow - this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.” 
― Elizabeth Gilbert 

And it is a truly beautiful thing! I leave you with this:

 “I never made one of my discoveries through the process of rational thinking”

― Albert Einstein 

I find it quite funny that politicians have this theory, that increasing or making BEE/AA more broad based, will change the fact that most of the wealth is still in "white" hands? No matter how broad based you make it, it will never reverse the trend unless you empower people. It's not even a color thing. During Apartheid there were many Black men who became massively rich. It has to do with opportunity and an inner desire to succeed.

You simply have to change the entitlement mentality or you will keep failing! If the penny does not drop that with everything they've done to change that, we will be even worse off! It has not only failed but the gap got bigger, Yes sure there has been some ""victory"" with the poor whites, richer Blacks increasing. The poor whites also need to be empowered, or we are just shifting the problem not solving it. I dare say that we are also setting them up to fail as they mostly survive on handouts too now?

You have to emulate the "Rich'es"  game. That game is resolve, ingenuity, hard work and a will to succeed. Add education,planning  and respect and you're almost there,. Then being literate helps quite a bit too! He who fails to plan plans to fail.

Black people have another disadvantage!Its really a cultural problem. African culture is sitting around waiting on the chief. He does not tell you to get off your ass, you stay put. And wait for the handout! The new SA looks pretty close to that anyway? Plus the chief answers to no man? Can you see how the money can disappear without anybody really stopping it. He rules, he also makes the rules? Like it's been for ever!

Back to my point. Innovation is not high on the African agenda!Liberal guilt has left us with handouts and what I believe the biggest insult to growing able citizens, AA! We are giving fish, not teaching anybody anything! Liberals also have this, we are all the same lie! We are not. Some people just have more drive, intelligence, ability than others. Some just have to work harder to get the same result! That's life. You're not going to change that. What you can do though, is make sure each person develops to the full potential we all have. It may not have the same result but It's way better than the poverty people in this country face every day! That gets done with education and training and making sure the opportunities get created.

Taking from one to give to another is not creating it's diluting. WE need more entrepreneurs! We also need competition. That creates excellence. Stop letting politicians lead you by the nose, and selling their lies for votes!  WE are all going down. Only way is to stop the rot and waste of resources on grants. We need education and opportunities. Soon!

Demographics!

"Demographic: Pertaining to characteristics of the population, such as race, sex, age, household size, and to population growth and Density. "

 We are not going to solve our problems in the world unless we understand demographics and how this determines the nature of the areas we live in. Went to braai some time ago, and the discussion about our future in SA popped up, as it almost always does these days? One of the guys there stated, that what we should do is to start buying up farms and just keep going. Without realizing he actually touched on why we are stuck in the situation we are in now. Even Pienk Frikkie de Klerk summed it up quite accurately some time ago, when he stated that apartheid only failed because we were too greedy and wanted too much. The early Boers understood this well and withdrew from Natal for instance. Congregated in the two republics and demographically dominated the area! Thus their culture would be the dominant one for that given geographic area because of the demographic of the people that are most abundant!

Fact is no matter how strong you are, demographics will always determine the outcome of who controls an area! Mid 1850's the Boers were outnumbered as well, but in certain areas they outnumbered the neighboring tribes and therefore their culture was the dominant one for their areas. They could make the rules and even defend their rights with no-one ever denying them that privilege,

We lost what we had in the War, because we then got overrun by other cultures, that started dominating the demographics for our areas after the war. It matters not that it was "our" area, because in time, who ever dominates demographically will control it geographically!We are heading down that road today still with allowing immigrants to move into the country at a such a rate that no one culture will withstand this onslaught. The EU is starting to learn this fact too, but will hey wake up in time?

Apartheid was a lie, in as much that we could never keep control over all of this country, unless we could dominate with demographics!

If we want to fix this, we need to get this fact and instead of waging war, start dominating areas with numbers! Spend our efforts creating our own instead of fighting for someone to give it to us! Will never happen ,but occupying an area with our own people will result in getting some of  our own back! Orania and Kleinfontein is a start, and if we build on that, we could have the freedom and safety we seek! There is no other way. We tried and failed, time for a better strategy, one that cannot be stopped. One that requires no violence or breaking the law!

“Insanity is doing the same thing, over and over again, but expecting different results.”

Greed cost us dearly before, we need to be patient this time round!

I finally get it! I wrote some days ago about unconditional love! In some way this a sort of follow on? The point is as a full blooded male it took a long time, but I now finally do get it!  I professed love and only spoke from my perspective!You see my view is a little different to the conventional now and it takes time to digest. We live in a world of filters and boxes and to free yourself from it you have to step back sometimes. So step back with me for some perspective!

The whole article showed my commitment to unconditional Love! In a way made me seem like this nice guy? Maybe I am now but how did we get there? What we have to do now is plot my journey to that Epiphany!

I like the rest bought into what most perceives as Love. Life had to give me a good old smack to catch a wake up, and change my life. Short version is this: We've been married 6 years then. Had three kids. At one point made buckets full of money! I was never home. Playing Golf, working hard, getting awards! I was untouchable, and incorrigible! I took no advice, gave my opinion on everything. Just like all powerful men do! It took me losing all of the material to realize that it holds no value at all! It wasn't even my fault? I got taken to the cleaners, lost about a million in 3 months. Had no income for nine months and we went down in flames! Everything I held dear was material, and it was all gone! I became depressed, let myself go ( weighed 138 kg's at one point), and basically gave up. I took even less interest in the kids, felt sorry for myself and blamed everybody for my predicament! My wife held us all together on her own. You see women have a toughness we as men just don't! It's emotional, mental and spiritual! I spoke about Black and White before and what she did was nowhere near that simple. She should have left! I was not providing anything but just dragging them down with me! She stood firm, getting money for food while I was feeling sorry for myself! She just got on with the job caring for everybody, including me. She was only 27 at the time, sexy as hell. She did not need me! Yet she loved me. No accusations, no blaming, no condition!

It took me some time to understand what she did. And appreciate that we survived as a family because of her fierce loyalty, and total commitment. She dragged me up without saying a word! Men are not capable of this, shit we hardly understand this? We have since recovered thanks to the heart of a woman. A very special woman!

This brings me to another thing I finally get, well sort of ? In the movie Titanic the old Rose says the following:

" a woman's heart is a deep ocean of secrets. But now you know there was a man named Jack Dawson and that he saved me... in every way that a person can be saved."

I will tell you this us, guys would not even remember this line, yet its the epitome of being a woman! She loved this guy all her life and could be a good and loving wife to her husband years later too. She shunned living a rich life for living one of Love and contentment. WE want to be benefactors of this amazing quality women have, but we tend to ruin it by forcing them into slavery of sorts, Men try make women possessions? The problem is you will never own a girls heart lest she gives to you! I firmly believe this is why so many cultures/religions try and control women by taking away their rights and forcing them to submit to man! They are indeed a strange mysterious wonder? But I will tell you what I found ?She will gladly submit if you can love her as she understands love, otherwise you're pretty much screwed!

All honor's wounds are self-inflicted. -Andrew Carnegie

There are so many tales of woman's resolve in difficult times, illness, adversity. During the Boer war they represented the Boer resolve through horrific times. They were also the most brutal towards traitors.They quietly went back and helped rebuild a country without so much as a whimper.The behind every man line is well known. What a privilege to have such a partner, just so we ruin it with logic?  How many cases do you know of men forgiving there wife's anything? We as men value our personal "honor" above all ! A Councillor friend of mine has not seen it his entire career? The ones that tried made the woman's life such hell that it eventually also failed. Yet men receive this kind of second chance every day! Ever notice how a mother loves her child? I would rather spank a Lion than scratch there! You could be included in this unconditional loyalty, just stop being an ass !

Man, we want them to explain their hearts when they don't even know ? They are creatures of instinct, far deeper than we can ever be. Best we just embrace it and go along for the ride. I suggest you hold on tight. If she allows you in it will be the ride of your life! But rewarding in a way I cannot describe! I get it now. Best to own her heart if possible and let go of the physical restrictions we impose on this journey.

It is not what we take up, but what we give up, that makes us rich. -Henry Ward Beecher

True love needs to be set free, else you will never know it? They get it, time we do too!You can only love, be patient and have faith! But love is as Love does, and in the end, it will conquer even our biggest fears and insecurities. I believe that insecurity keeps us from just giving all! Men are the most insecure creatures on earth if you look past the bravado!Good luck. Take care, Love fiercely and live with no regrets!